Sex is easy in the early days but many women find it much more challenging to satisfy a man’s sexual needs over the long term. Embarrassment over acknowledging men’s higher sex drive means that couples who seek help feel abnormal. They are simply brave enough to confront an almost inevitable issue in heterosexual relationships.
Men’s desire to stimulate a woman through thrusting causes them to focus on female orgasm. But women are clearly not motivated by orgasm as men are.
Men are aroused much more easily than women are, so sexual pleasure is more appealing to men. This is simply a balance of EFFORT versus REWARD. Women lack men’s sex drive but also orgasm is less vital to a woman’s sense of well-being.
So women fake orgasm to avoid disappointing men but this ‘solution’ doesn’t help couples get the most out of sex. The man assumes that he is satisfying his partner so he never accepts the need to offer some sensual sex play before taking his orgasm.